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Be Thankful, and Save Big!

Be Thankful, and Save Big!

Remember when Black Friday used to kick off right at the normal opening time on the Friday after Thanksgiving?  What about when it got all crazy, and the stores started opening at 8 a.m. instead of 10:00 on that day?  I couldn’t imagine why anyone would want to get up, dressed, and out to the mall by 8 a.m. on a day that was designed for sleeping in and then having leftover pumpkin pie for breakfast.

It got a little crazy when it went to 6:00 a.m.  Soon it was midnight, followed almost immediately by 10:00 p.m. on Thanksgiving evening.

Let me just say one thing:  If you aren’t comatose by 10:00 p.m. on Thanksgiving from too much of, well, EVERYTHING, then you’re not doing it right.

This year, many retailers, tired of fighting for those first fistfuls of Christmas shopping money, have thrown down the gauntlet and will be open all day on Thanksgiving.  There’s going to be a real shortage of assistants for the household chefs, parade watchers, dishwashers, and nap takers.

Let’s see……parades, food, family, more food, card games, dessert……or, shopping.  For me, there’s no contest:  turkey, laughter, Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade, French Silk Pie, leftover turkey sandwiches, It’s A Wonderful Life….well, that beats shopping any day.

However, whether or not there SHOULD be an option to shop is a topic of hot debate this year.  Some people are quite angry that corporate greed is resulting in employees losing a family holiday so that the stores can make money.

Is it unfair?  Should retailers be closed?

If you believe the answer is “yes”, then I have some follow up questions for you.  What of the other businesses that are open?  I won’t go to the extreme of hospitals and other emergency services, but what about restaurants?  Can’t people live without a Grand Slam breakfast for one day?  How about pharmacies?  Emergency medicines are always available at a hospital, so does Walgreens really need to stay open?  What about gas stations?  Can’t people, for ONE DAY, remember to fill their tanks the day before?  How about movie theaters?  It’s a huge day for them, but can’t folks stay home and watch TV for one day so the concession kid can be home eating pumpkin pie?

If you believe the answer is “no”, I have some questions for you as well.  Should employees who are likely making low hourly wages be required to work on a family holiday?  What about those people who have children and can’t find daycare on Thanksgiving?  Not to mention the fact that those children will likely miss out entirely on a Thanksgiving celebration because Mom and/or Dad have to work.  Should employers be required to only utilize staff that is willing to work on holidays, maybe for extra pay, or should they be able to enforce the common rule of termination for not working on high volume days?

I’m genuinely interested in hearing both sides of this argument, so please comment.  I’ll be digesting all opinions while enjoying a late night turkey sandwich next Thursday.  64827_happy_thanksgiving_collage

 

Confessions of a Bitchy Angel

Confessions of a Bitchy Angel

I thought about ranting about the lowlife who dumped a helpless, unhealthy puppy at my mailbox this afternoon.  I realize, though, that the people who understand how vile of an act that is don’t need to be preached to, and the scum buckets who carelessly abandon animals don’t really care how upset I get over it.

So I’ll let sleeping dogs lie on that subject…at least for today.  Even though the sleeping dog is unable to stand, is covered in fleas and bloody scabs from all the bites, and has a giant extended belly from the intestinal worms, I’ll go ahead and let it lie.

Next subject.

I have wonderful friends.  Tonight, as I was sharing photos of Annabelle (the name Steve christened the abandoned Beagle with), many people made kind statements about my big heart, and what an angel I am, and how lucky Annabelle is to have found our house.

Bull hockey.  Or is it horse pucky?  Maybe just a crock of crap.

I pulled in to the driveway tonight about 6:30 after a long day that had started 14 hours earlier.  Since it would have been impossible to not see the immobile dog sprawled out next to my mailbox, front paws on the road, I assumed said pup was not there when my husband arrived home just a few minutes before I did.

I approached the little Beagle slowly, not wanting her to bolt into the road.  Not to worry, she was in no condition to “bolt”.  Or walk.  She couldn’t even stand up without tipping over.  Oh, goody.

I was not an angel at this moment.  I was pissed off.  Not at the dog, of course, but certainly at the situation.  I already had 2 stray cats that had shown up in the past couple of weeks, one of them being extremely young, in poor health, and needing a fair amount of rehab work.

So, the first thought that came out of the big hearted angel (Yours Truly), was not exactly reminiscent of St. Francis of Assissi.

“I don’t have time for this.”

Pick up the dog.  She’s lethargic.

“I need more vet bills like I need a hole in my head.”

She’s covered in fleas.

“I am not bringing this flea ridden animal into my house.”

Her belly is hugely extended.  Worms, no doubt.

“I am not doing this.  I have 3 dogs and a sick kitten.”

She cannot stand.  She’s completely head shy.

“Dammit dammit dammit dammit dammit dammit.”

“I just want to eat dinner and watch Big Bang Theory.”

I ring the doorbell, which I never do.  I don’t want to walk in with this puppy, because the other dogs will be jumping and carrying on, and I don’t know if she’s sick.

Steve opens the door and says “No f*@#%ing way.  Are you kidding me?”

He’s angry too.  Not at me, of course, and not at the puppy.  He’s ticked off at the situation.  Thank God I married a man who is so in sync with me.

I’m no angel, and Annabelle could have landed a much better mailbox to be abandoned at.   We will do our best to get her healthy and into a good home…..a different home. ( I am *not* keeping this dog.)  I am going to cuss and complain about flea bombing my house, and the chunk of change I’ll be dropping at the animal supply store and veterinary office.  Just don’t confuse me with a kind hearted hero.  I’m doing what I believe is the right thing, but I’m doing it in an annoyed state, not with a warm and fuzzy heart.

On the bright side, at least I won’t break an ankle from falling off a pedestal.

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Annabelle

Goodnight, Precious Girl

Goodnight, Precious Girl

I am not a talented enough writer to adequately describe the heart and soul of our Great Dane, Echo.  I’ve written of her in other posts; the adventures, the craziness, the health issues, the uncontrollable urge to eat food not meant for dogs.

She is the gentlest giant I’ve ever been around.  Seven grandchildren have used her as a pillow, a dress up doll, and a protector from the dark.  When we brought hatchling chickens home to populate our new hen house, she laid prone on her side and let them nestle against her, climb over her, and use her for warmth.193137_10150115315733879_85528_o

Those giant, expressive brown eyes have persuaded me to give up my blanket, share my dinner, upgrade to a King size mattress so there was room for her, and rearrange my work station so that she could keep her head in my lap.  Children are drawn to her everywhere she goes, even those that are on edge around dogs.  She always welcomes other dogs into her circle, respecting the older ones and romping like a giant rabbit with energetic puppies.

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She loves a good car trip, stretching out as much as she can for drives to Florida or Canada.  She’s a water dog, and it’s impossible not to laugh at how much she looks like an otter when she swims.  She has an obsession with deer, and nothing puts a spring in her step like seeing one dart into the woods and giving chase after them.  I’ve always wondered if she just thinks they’re dogs too, leggy like she is.

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Mostly, though, she is a couch potato.  She loves to lounge, to cuddle, to nap, to snuggle, to stretch, to snore.  She has this look about her as if to communicate that it is just exhausting to be as beautiful, as big, and as regal as she is.  She defines beauty sleep.  It always surprises me when people think Echo is a “he”.  She has such a girly air about her, as well as an endless supply of pink collars.  If she were human, she’d be Cleopatra, with humans feeding her bacon while she stretched out on her favorite blanket.

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She is a perfect dog for this family.  She is an excellent companion for Moose, a great teacher for Pickle, and for her humans, she is a dependable source of comfort and loyalty.  If I’m ill, she doesn’t leave my side until Steve forces her outside.  While many people use “baby talk” when speaking to their pets, Echo somehow coaxes more of a “cooing” from her humans.  Oh, and she winks.  She’s a big winker, and it always makes me laugh.

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********************************************************************************************************************************************* All of this was written last night, as my whimpering dog lay across my lap trying to sleep.  I petted her, cooed to her, and tried to comfort her as she struggled to stand up, finally giving in to emptying her bladder where she lay; not something my dignified beauty is used to.  Moose tried to lick her face, and she growled and snapped at him.  That was a first.  The other dogs kept their distance.  This morning, I called the vet, and off we went.  We talked it over, we looked at options, and I made the decision to end the pain.  Today, the Rainbow Bridge had a beautiful, elegant, sweet, loyal princess cross over it.  I sat on the floor with her in my lap one last time in the exam room, with my daughter by my side being brave for me, and we hugged her neck and cooed to her for the last time as she drifted away.

We are all so lucky to have had these years with her.  I will always be grateful.  I hope I made the correct decision today.  I talked to Echo about it for a long time during the night, and while it may just be my mind creating my own comfort, I think she gave me the go ahead.

Rest well, sweet girl.  You have certainly left your mark on all of your humans.

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